So, I did my thesis on a woman named Arlene Francis. Part of her career was as a posh 1950s game show panelist on What’s My Line? where they asked yes or no questions to determine someone’s line of work. After her first few weeks on the show she complained to her husband about never having guessed any occupation correctly. “You’re not listening,” he said. “I see you and see you formulating questions in your head. And you’re not listening to any answers given. If you’re actively listening, the questions will flow naturally.”
“Supercommunicators don’t just hear; they listen.” I'm under the impression that this is quickly becoming one of the rarest traits in communication. It's wonderful that you choose to emphasize its importance, Arty. Genuine understanding requires openness and reciprocity; not merely polite gestures.
So, I did my thesis on a woman named Arlene Francis. Part of her career was as a posh 1950s game show panelist on What’s My Line? where they asked yes or no questions to determine someone’s line of work. After her first few weeks on the show she complained to her husband about never having guessed any occupation correctly. “You’re not listening,” he said. “I see you and see you formulating questions in your head. And you’re not listening to any answers given. If you’re actively listening, the questions will flow naturally.”
That is fascinating! Yes! It's so hard to fully listen.
“Supercommunicators don’t just hear; they listen.” I'm under the impression that this is quickly becoming one of the rarest traits in communication. It's wonderful that you choose to emphasize its importance, Arty. Genuine understanding requires openness and reciprocity; not merely polite gestures.
Thank you so much Thaissa! It is rare and hard to achieve, but well worth it!
Really interesting. Thanks!
Thank you!